Just beyond the airport’s secured area, right where waiting friends and family can first meet arriving passengers, I saw a gaggle of twenty or more people. Noticing the two pre-pubescent kids holding large hand-lettered signs, I quickly deduced they were waiting for someone other than me. Yeah, I admit my powers of logic sometimes impress me, too.
The signs affirmed at least two things: 1) the awaited person had been gone too far, and 2) the awaited person had been gone too long. People who know me well rarely affirm either of those opinions and the fact that this group collectively affirmed both of them further reinforced my earlier deduction. The expectancy on their faces convinced me that this was going to be a moment worth watching. So… I stepped over and stood against the wall and waited to watch the moment.
I didn’t have to wait long.
Within two minutes, another passenger from the same plane I’d been on walked through the exit. His youthful adult face lit up brightly when he saw the group. A middle-aged woman wearing a long cotton dress and with her long brown hair tightly pinned around her head strode forward with an even brighter glow on her face. One of the young sign holders accompanied her. The woman hugged the arriving young man with an intimate urgency that he reciprocated. After a moment, he hugged the young boy. The three of them walked toward the remainder of the group who were waiting patiently for the closest reunion to unfold.
One or two at a time, perhaps according to closeness of relationship, subsequent hugs and greetings unfolded. Something like a circle expanded and the young man moved further into the group. Even as he moved away from her toward the others, the mother’s eyes stayed focused on the young man.
There was nothing about his appearance, haircut, dress, or demeanor that suggested “military.” That disproved an earlier assumption I’d made when I’d first seen the group with their signs. Yeah, sometimes my logic isn’t all that impressive… Maybe he was a young Mormon returning from a two-year mission? Maybe a member of a different religious group coming back home from an overseas service? Maybe a prodigal returning to the fold and the farm?
Don’t know and don’t really care. Analysis and explanation ruin many a good experience and I wasn’t about to let either of those diminish the intense satisfaction I derived from my uninvited witness to this perennial pleasure of reunion. This spectacle of joy and affirmation of humanity.
I stayed out of the way, inobtrusive and silent…
Until I saw the circle around the mother spread slightly and the young man moved on to the rear fringes of the welcoming group.
In that opportune instant, I stepped over close to the woman and leaned forward just enough to gain her attention. She turned her face toward me, eyes already misty with feeling. I smiled broadly and said gently, not loud enough for anyone else to hear me, “You do know this is what heaven is going to be like, don’t you?”
Her eyes widened slightly and a look of transcendent peace and calm joy swept across her face. She looked intently at me, nodded, and whispered, “Yes… I do. I do.”
I turned and walked away, taking a final glance at the young man as he moved toward another young man standing outside the larger group and waiting. I’d bet a dollar to a donut that they’d been best friends in high school.
The degree of missing one another in our temporary separations is one measure of closeness. The depth of joy in our reunions is another. One is painful sometimes to the point of breaking; the other is bliss almost beyond comprehension. As we endure the one, let us never lose sight of the other.
It. Is. Coming.